Found Facebook...

I found facebook and that has been where I have been spending my time. Just writing little status updates here and there. Not that I am ready to give up Lifes Simple Things... my thoughts here remain the same and I am glad I wrote them down. (I mean posted them)

Be Well...

Bringing In The May

I just found this interesting little tid-bit:

http://www.loc.gov/wiseguide/may06/may.html

Although there were not many April showers, we do have beautiful May flowers here...

Enjoy your Spring!

Postpartum Warmline

Here is the WarmLine for SOLACE : 877~SOLACE4

I truly believe that this will prove to be an invaluable resource for our birthing families...

Take a few minutes and see what SOLACE (Support to Overcome Labor and Childbearing Experiences) is all about. Maybe you or someone you know will need to phone sometime in the future...

Why we need an organization like SOLACE

Our Vision:
(copied from the website: www.solace-southbay.org)

We envision an organization that will provide multi-faceted support for women who have experienced challenging or traumatic deliveries through:

~support, education and a non-judgmental connection via a telephone “warm line” staffed by volunteers trained in normal childbirth as well as supportive listening skills;

~group support meetings to facilitate community connections among women seeking to share about, understand, and master their challenging childbearing experiences;

~practical training for mental health and birth professionals to expand their skills to support the unique demands of transforming birth trauma into healthy attachment and motherhood.

Upcoming Conference!

I am thrilled to announce this conference!

October 6-7, 2007

"When Childbirth Becomes Traumatic"

Featuring Penny Simkin PT and Phyllis Klaus CSW, MFT ~ 2 of the founders of DONA International and authors of "When Survivors Give Birth" along with Sharon Storton MA, CHT, LMFT and founder of SOLACE...

Hosted by:

SOLACE (Support in Overcoming Labor and Childbearing Experiences)
BABI (Bay Area Birth Information)

Los Gatos Lodge
50 Los Gatos/Saratoga Road
Los Gatos, Ca 95032
(800) 231.8676 • (408) 354-3300

Spoiling Is When...

Spoiling Is When You Leave Something On The Shelf To Rot...

Not when you tend to your baby before she gets too upset.

Not when you offer your baby skin-to-skin care as often as you can.

Not when you take him to be with you every night, after trying every trick in the book to MAKE him more independent.

Not when you realize that you can even fall asleep together and after a time you realize you both are much happier this way.

Not when you feed her when she would like to eat. (Just like you and I do!)

Not when you use a sling to carry him out and about instead of a baby bucket.

Babies are very social little things and the way they are made up requires them to have constant interaction with their parents.

Babies, as smart as they are, just do not get why they do not have mom and dad close for hours every day.

Actually, they do get it.

And they try with all their little might to let us know what they need and require to thrive in this world.

Sometimes we just need to listen...

A Weekend 5 Minutes Away...

Ahhh... there is nothing like a weekend away with the girls.

We laughed together, ate together, sang together and just simply enjoyed being with each other.

There is something magical about "Retreating" if just for a couple of days.

This year I ended up in a room where the linens were supplied. A little hotel room, if you will. (Must remember to request same accommodation's again next year)

And, the fact that it was 5 minutes away was pretty nice too!

Thoughts

Misc. things on my mind today...

Slowly, parents are starting to realize that they can get the support they need and deserve when they bring home their little ones...

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I wonder why some people make the decisions that they do.
Do they really have honest intentions?
Do they have the best interest of those around them in mind?
Do we have to just follow blindly and accept someone’s else’s decisions because they are "the powers that be"?

Well, not the ultimate powers that be... That is where I can lay my heart down to heal- with the Ultimate Power That Is

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As much fun as basketball season was for Jane this year, I am glad it's over. There is so much pressure on our kids. And, I admit, I am a bit guilty of that from time-to-time... For example: Jane decided to join the track team when she finished with basketball. Thursday was the last BB game. Friday afternoon I was a bit surprised when she walked through the door as I assumed she would have gone to the field to join the team. As she was relaxing on the couch, doing not much of anything, I impatiently asked "Why are you home and not with your track team? Ever so patiently, she asks "Mama, can't I just have one afternoon with nothing to do?"

That's my girl...

I'm usually so protective of our time and not schedule too many outside commitments. Downtime is highly under-rated. Especially play time for our kids. I was so caught up in the scheduling of it all that I forgot about downtime!

Thank You Jane for bringing in all into prospective (again!)